THE LAW OF ATTRACTION

WHISPERS FROM SILENCE WHAT IS THE EGO  THE FALSE-SELF IN ALL OF US. ||||| The ego is the sumtotal of all one's beliefs about oneself and his life. And since every belief is an illusion, the ego ultimately is an illusion. It makes one believe as if one is a victim, or a saviour or an abuser and so on. ||||| Besides it feels that only it can save one from certain circumstances. For example if one does not prove his worth to the society or to some particular person, as if the sky would fall. |||||  It is that part of one that makes one to believe that one is just a fragment in an alien world. Because of this one gets a largely distorted view of the world. ||||| It is like a mental picture one has about himself as an individual to which one holds and spents a lot amount of energy and time to protect it without realizing that life could go on very well even without it. ||||| The ego strongly believes it is who you are and that its death is your death. So it feels that a number of things have to be performed to keep itself alive and safe and moving i.e ( to keep you alive according to it ). ||||| That one is either better than or inferior to another or to the crowd or perhaps even the rest of mankind ||||| It is the death of the ego or rather the disidentification from it completely that people refer to as enlightment. CHILDREN DONOT HAVE IT. ||||| An average adult spents on an average of 92% of his mental energy in defending, justifying, protecting, or proving his self-image.  ||||| This is also the reason why children in their tender age are so full of energy, enthusiasm, passion and so on. ||||| As a child one has an amazing power to concentrate and to grasp new things which an adult usually lacks. ||||| Children remain uninfluenced by the environment and infact the environment gets influenced by them. ||||| Their ability to express themselves is very high compared to adults. ||||| One may never come across a mother of a 3-year old grumbling that my son is so shy, not at all energetic, does not mix up with people. ||||| Yes, there may be complaints like my son grabbed a cat by its tail, is hyperenergetic, mishievious, hardly sleeps and so on but then..........thats a different issue. ||||| The reason is that children donot have a self-image to unconsciously invest so much of valuable mental energy. They just flow with their existence.  “I tell you the truth, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. 4Therefore, whoever humbles himself like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven."                                                  Matthew 18:2-6 (THE HOLY BIBLE) THE BIRTH OF THE EGO. ||||| Man is not born with an ego. The structure of the society is designed by the universe in such a way that a false self image is created for him. MOMENTS when the ego takes roots................ ()If you do this you are a good boy or else a bad boy. ()Look a JOHN, does he trouble his parents (like you)? ()I wish you were like him. ()You are lazy..........(an absolute statement). ()You are stupid.. ()You are brilliant (as compared to others). ()You should be like this. (you are not good enough the way you are now) ()Life should be lead like this. (Life is not perfect the way it is right now). ()You are a good boy. ()I don't know when you will be matured. ()It is good you are not like him. ()Thank GOD you are not like the other boys in this society. ||||| In almost all the above cases, you must have noticed that the word you and in other cases the notion that things are not perfect now and you have to fix them. ||||| Slowly and slowly in your childhood, these things started happening more and more frequently. These beliefs are actually dividing. |||| The forms of divisions may be varied.... between you and someone else, between you and the rest of the society, your current habits and the so-called ideal habits, at times between you and the rest of mankind on this planet.(as if you were an alien)between your life at present and a so-called 'Perfect Future'. NATURE OF THE EGO: ||||| The mind can be compared to a computer with the hardware(brain), software (knowlege) and some unwanted programming that comes from the outside world (virus). This unwanted programming i.e virus, is what we can call as the ego. ||||| The ego is basically a set of conditioning, beliefs, and habits that one has invested for years together and may be still holding on to it. ||||| The ego is never in a mood to accept that these things are false and that life can go on well even without them. It believes that life's existence depends solely upon these activities. ||||| However it is only that the false existence of the ego that depends upon these activities. ||||| The real essence of existence is always present as you in the current moment (PRESENCE). ||||| It is because of the ego that suffering comes into existence. Without the ego, suffering is impossible. "ENLIGHTMENT is just the end of suffering. What remains after the end of suffering is for one to find out himself."                             .............Gautham Buddha. ||||| The ego builds fences around itself against the outer world. It makes one choose some circumstances and resist another set of cirumstances. ||||| It develops some preconceived notions of how life should go and turn out. ||||| It rates life and evaluates life by usually comparing life with the life of others. ||||| It makes one feel guilty, or a victim, or a savior, or an achievier and so on. ||||| It wants some or the other labels for it. And is constantly purchasing labels for itself because without them, it cannot exist and under their cover it feels very secure. HOBBIES(ACTIVITES)  OF THE EGO. THE EGO LOVES...................... ||||| Thinking.Its favourite job. Without thinking the ego senses death. |||||  It is the activity of thinking that provides the ego with nourishment, without with it cannot survive even for a week. ||||| Thinking in terms of linear time....i.e past and future. ||||| Developing stratergies to avoid the present moment. |||||  Justifying one's own way of living or any activity. ||||| To be for or against anything i.e to be on either side of the fence. ||||| To argue, debate, gossip, grumble etc. ||||| Building stratergies for the future as if without it life would be full of chaos. ||||| Imagining circumstances, and people and problems that donot even exist in the present. ||||| Comparison. The ego uses itself as a reference point and compares almost everything and everyone with itself. ||||| Evaluation.The immediate next step to comparison. ||||| The ego loves drama. Around people as well as in imagination. ||||| Competion. It either wants you to fit in or stand out. This is because for the ego, either you are not good enough as others or you are just too good than others. ||||| Brooting over the past. Its identity comes from the past. ||||| In other cases it takes pride from the past achievements and expectations. ||||| To put its teeth into problems. It strenghtens the sense of self. |||||  Possessing, achieving etc. |||| Analyzing. This is what truly ruptures relationships.  "Women donot deserve to be analyzed,.....   They deserve something much more...   They deserve to be loved."                           ............................MARK TWAIN. THE EGO HATES. |||| Allowing things to be just as they are. |||| It only understands manipulation and tampering with stuffs, be it relationships or a journey or your present moment etc. |||| BEING. The ego doesn't even understand being. (Yet the moments that one truly cherishes in life are the moments in which there was no doing  but just being. It may be during a first kiss, or first love or during a sexual orgasm and so on). |||| Surrender.The ego wants a confirmation to everything. It may play a victim to life, but surrender?..nopesie-nopesie. |||| The NOW moment. The food of the ego as well as its structure consists of time i.e past and future(this has got nothing to do with the clock time). The thought of being in the NOW also strikes terror for the ego. Time, thinking, doing, achieving thats all it wants. |||| Silence. The ego wants constant chatter, something to chew always, some clatter, some noise, some activity and so some noise. It cannot tolerate silence even for a minute. VISITORS COMMENTS/QUERRY SECTION HERE WHISPERS FROM SILENCE FORUM HERE Authors Shelf AFFILIATE LINKS WWW.DREAMMANIFESTO.COM EMOTIONAL FREEDOM TECHINIQUE Your Ad Here VIDEO Your Ad Here go to top hPage.com websites: Hardik sharma | PsycheHelp-Way Out of Distress

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The LAW OF ATTRACTION AND LOVE

THE LAW OF ATTRACTION AND LOVE








What is love?
Love is the realization of oneness that
is the only reality in this universe. Einstein’s theory of relativity proved it that everything else from time, to matter to everything that you
can see and touch is just an illusion(MAYA).

The world with all its stars, and planets and everything else is just like a video-game(LEELA) with
excellent graphics, you see. Everything is One(God) and when you tend to realize this oneness we experience it as love.



ENERGY(God) cannot be created nor can be destroyed.
However the forms in which IT(God) appears may vary.
The total amount of energy in this
Universe is always constant.


....................... The Law of conservation of ENERGY 









So now you know 650 crores (6.5 ) billion is the population of this planet and why everyone in this world will always say a yes to pure love .

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Love doesn’t have to be shared. 
Positive thinking books and even many so called spiritual books talk about sharing love as if it is something like sharing an apple. The poor readers and followers who read it think they themselves are just worthless piece of mud as they are right now and so…….they
try to reach out and land up in situations where they weren’t meant to be.



"The greatest problem in this world is that the wise are full of doubts and the fools full of confidence"
             ……………………….MARK TWAIN.






Well..... the point is that only objects can be shared which fortunately or unfortunately love is not.






So......... you can keep the apple for own self.







Keep all your attention within and once all of that negativity and feelings of seperstion dissolves, love will shine through you and automatically reach
others.
Just like the Sun does’nt have to travel all the way long to the earth to give its shine……..even you don’t have to. Your Job is only you
because first of all there is only you. There is no second person or entity or Guru or even GOD out there in this visible universe.It just seems that way.


An empty cup cannot perch anybody’s thirst.
                          …………………………..THE
SECRET.


YET Paradoxially when you practice this….you automatically become more loving…more cheerful and a pleasant person (if not a pleasure) to be around.
The right actions, the right jokes etc take care of their own.

Communication now  happens as if one GOD is speaking to other. No motives, no intentions,...... just pure unconditional actions….which springing out of love.

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The true job is not oneness but separation right now. 

ALL that one has to do is be aware of the totality of the feelings of separation and jealousy and so on…or whatever little is your current state.

The big thing is not that you will be experiencing love one day, for after all, it is who you are right now. The big thing is that you are experiencing separation, jealousy, and so many problems
because of others. So why not experience it fully.
However when you happen to experience it fully, it may perhaps be the last time you get to taste them. When any emotion is experienced fully it dissolves into
love. After that you may never get to taste them even if you want to.


You have already elevated yourself to a new level of reality where those feelings don’t exist. And guess what? you may not even come across others who
possess those similar feelings. You may actually miss them.

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ALL You have to do is understand what love is not


One doesn’t have to find love within himself as said by many of the books by world-famous authors all over the world. Honestly, it hasn’t worked has
it?


"A mind bothered about finding love within itself……………can such a mind receive love even when it arrives?
Absolutely no."


........................J KRISHNAMURTHI

The reason love cannot be found within is that ………………..
Love
is not an object. Only objects can be found.
Love is Oneness. Oneness that is experienced when all
illusions of seperations dissolve.





Seldom does one realize that the one who is searching for love i.e your attention itself is
love. When attention dissolves many of the things that kept clouding your conciousnes mind because of sensations(like pain, jealousy,separation, expectation etc)
awareness(attention) now starts experiencing itself. This is when love is experienced.


Love cannot be achieved………
Love cannot
be achieved through prayers or meditation(yoga) or anything………the reason…..simple……one cant achieve what he really is. Trying
to achieve love is like trying to achieve life………i.e saying one day I will exist and I will achieve life. Just as you are life you are love. ALL you need to do is dissolve your current state(whatever you are feeling right now) by attention to it as it is. 

Love is 100% pure helplessness
Love is helpless. People may train you and advise speak about it as if it can be controlled. However the true beauty of love is that it is not subject to control.

If you love someone all the arms and ammunitions, all the preachings, all the religions are helpless before it. No medical science no technology can do anything to
change it. Even if God happens to come before you and advise you not to have feelings for that someone its not gonna work for you. God is helpless in front of love. God is that HELPLESS
LOVE.


Love is 100% vulnerability.

Love dawns automatically when instead of building fences against and escaping this moment, this current moment is
made 100% vulnerable with all its feelings and emotions. When all feelings are made vulnerable they dissolve under their own strength and become a part of your
attention(you) i.e they are no longer experienced in your physical reality.
Just be aware of how much and how many fences you
have build around yourself,
Either to protect your self image, or to enhance it etc etc….

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Love happens…..it cannot be done.

Love cannot be done deliberately. Either it happens on its own accord or either it is not love at all…… Just an
activity taken up by the mind under the BANNER OF LOVE.


Love IS and therefore and therefore is timeless. It just seems to be
created when that special person arrives. Love is not an activity. In the west especially nowadays people talk upon working upon relationships and
speaking out and etc etc……
However the dept that one needs in life come only when one becomes aware of how
superficial one’s life is and how every action of his is not out of love but for love or for appreciation etc etc…..
Awareness and superficiality cannot go along for long. Superficality falls away like leaves fall away in autumn and DEPT is just like an ultimate remainder.


The true beauty of love is that it cannot be faked or copied or imitated by anything else in this world. No
Control, no manipulation…nothing works upon it.


Surely there are actions out of love. But then, you don’t even have to bother about them, they will helplessly come out of you
when you inwardly love is experienced by you.
The true job is not oneness but separation right now. 


ALL that one has to do is be aware of the totality of the feelings of separation and jealousy and so on…or whatever little is your current
state.

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THE LAW OF ATTRACTION TRAP

* Is LOA A Scam?

* Does the Law of  Attraction stop working after some time?

* The Nature of Desire.

Is The Law Of Attraction a Scam?

|LOA is a universal law which is
constantly in action. There is no denying it.

|Well one of the major
things that we learn in the LOA is that thought and feelings produce corresponding circumstances. But then that is all that the LOA can do. However many
of us are still not sure as to whether what is that we want. 

|Many of the things
that we think we want is truly not what we want from the bottom of  our hearts.

|When a person
 first learns the law of attraction and sees that it works, one may think that almost  everything is possible from this. However this does not happen. Because the
law of attraction  manifests through feelings and not just thoughts, there is a limit to which one can manifest with the law of attraction with thoughts
alone.

|Life is intelligent. If the
Law of Attraction worked powerfully always, there is chance that one would get caught in his web of desires and expectation.

|A life lead in such a way
seems meaningless even though using LOA things may seem to manifest.

I DIDN'T UNDERSTAND

|A lot of people who wanted to manifest a pefect
relationship honestly confessed that they couldn't do so because they felt that they were not deserving enough for it.

|Some even said that before the law of
attraction, i was craving and struggling behind a particular object/person of desire after being exposed to the loa suddenly getting insights wondering whether it was
truly what they wanted from their life.

|Many people got whatever they wanted from their
lives but complained of having a strange dissatisfaction inspite of getting what they wanted using the wonderful law. They said that there was a strange void within them which they initially felt would vanish after attaining the object of desire and so tried to fill it with the object of their desire, however even
after the object of desire was achieved , the void remained where it was.

|Infact in some cases it led to greater
frustuation because people now as if had nothing to look forth to  struggle  for in life.

|For the first time as if
they realized that they were all this time running behind things they actually never wanted.

|So this inturn limits the frquencies
emitted by them until they discover what is that truly resonates with their heart.

|ENOCH TAN, AUTHOR OF MIND-SPACE-REALITY has written a
very beautiful similar article here

CONFLICTING
INTENSIONS, THE LAW OF ATTRACTION TRAP

HOW DO I KNOW WHAT I WANT IN LIFE?

|BY spending time with your wants and
feeling them completely.

|Most of our wants were not with what we were
born with but rather something we were conditioned by the society that we should have or may be a string of circumstances led you to want something and when you never
got it and saw others possessing it, it became an abject of arrogance for you.

|Lets say you loved somebody and that person
initially loved you with all your heart. You trusted that person and then suddenly that person says he/she is no longer interested and that he/she is love with someone whom you loathe. Now this may
become an object of arrogance for you. This arrogance has nothing to do with love.

|The best way to understand this is to
imagine  as if that person has come-back to you right now........... after all your efforts have finally borne fruit. He/She is
once again mad for you. But do you still feel that same way for that person. Can you trust and love and live contented with that person. It may be that you no longer love that person. That person
may just be a fodder for your hurt ego.

I AM STILL NOT CLEAR HOW DO I KNOW WHAT  IS THAT I WANT FROM LIFE.

|As mentioned earlier, one of the best ways is to
feel as if that object is right now present with you and ask whether going behind this want really made sense in any way.

|A second effective method is to
track the root of the want. Where exactly at what point in time in your life did you start wanting it? What were the series of circumstances that led
you to want something?

|When you carefully track-back the
BIRTH OF YOUR WANTS, you may realize that this want was actually just an illusion created by different circumastances i.e the mind just created
this web of thoughts without even asking the heart whether I truly wanted it from all my heart.

AND HOW IS THIS GONNA HELP ME?

|When there is a realization from within
(and not because you came across a site named WHISPERS FROM SILENCE) that these things are not what you truly want in life......that is the beginning of the end of that
want.

You may get the object of that want, however that object even when it arrives, you are gonna be totally detached from it.

|A certain amount of momentum will be
possessed by those wants....so they may not get dissolved instantly. However in the course of time.......as you keep paying attention to them they dissolve.

CAN YOU SPEAK A BIT MORE ON DISSOLVING WANTS?

"Whatever is given unconditional attention to dissolves under its own strength,

and  Whatever is  resisted persists."

|The major reason why our wants have
survived within us for years put together is that we never paid unconditional attention to them. We either resisted them, or justified them or indulged in them or struggled at getting them or never
looked at them (ignorance and indulgance are also  forms of  resistance)

 |Wants are
nothing but trapped energy decaying within you. Energy always likes to be in motion. You would be surprised how fast WANTS get released when attention is given to
them.......as if they always wanted to be free. Your subconscious mind may give you different images at this time....like a child running after school freely or a person coming out of jail or a
fairy getting out of the trap of a monster and so on............

THE NATURE OF WANTS.

|Wants are nothing but trapped emotions
(energy that wants to be in a state of motion). This trapped energy is usually a constant in a given person at a given instant of time. The object of desire/want does not satisfy or reduce or
eliminate desire.

| Even after the object is
attained, now the object of desire changes to something else . However desire in itself is a constant until its dissolution takes place. It is a false notion that Desire will parch/eliminate itself
after the object of desire is attained.

|All that desire requires to be free is
your attention.

DESIRES ARE LIKE AN ICEBERG

|Lets consider an ice-berg floating in a
sea of water. The size of the ice-berg is going to remain constant no matter how many things one keeps over it in a life-time.  It is only an illusion that if one keeps a
sufficient weight upon the ice-berg, it will dissolve in water. The only way to dissolve it is.....

TO BRING IT IN FRONT OF SUNLIGHT.........ONES UNCONDITIONAL ATTENTION...hmmm?

|YES,...... got it right.

|Just as the ice-berg, desires donot
vanquish after the object of desire is attained. It only seems that way. Desire is a state-of-being of one. After one object is acquired, it takes the
form of another object and then another and so on. Unless and until attempts are made to dissolve desires through unconditional attention, desires are there to
stay.

IF ONE  DOES NOT  HAVE DESIRES , WON'T ONE BECOME LAZY?    WILL ONE STILL WORK AND HAVE THAT WILL TO WORK?        WON'T ONE'S  LIFE GET STUCK UP
IN A RUT?

|Its exactly the opposite actually.
Because desires are an unintelligent and stuck up form of energy. Energy when in that stuck up form is not lively and is stagnant and as if dead.
Desires only seems to delusion one and make him do things he truly does not desire from heart.

|However when desire is paid attention
to , it frees itself and totally merges with attention i.e (energy in the formless state).

|The same
old stagnant energy once in the form of desires has now turned into a lively, passionate but still and balance kind of energy. Energy has as if returned
home after a long duration. It is now formless and intelligent in itself. It has merged with the universal intelligence i.e your attention.

|Actions now come out of 
unconditional love. They are highly energetic, totally apt for the situation and things get done with ease and grace.

|The feeling one gets through this is
amazing and since the circumstances that come about in life are just a reflection of those feelings, all the right circumstances and feelings line up one after the other.

Dissolving desires and attaining clarity.

|Desires when dissolved lead to a newly
found clarity in one life contrary to the popular belief. Life is then lead with an intutive feeling of what is right and what wrong. Action now come out of a place of unconditional love.

|Actions taken now
are no longer a means to an end. The means and the end have as if merged together.

|Ambition on the other hand is just a
rigid conditioning which many a times distorts clarity in life. An ambitious person is not a person who necessarily follows his heart and who has clarity in life.

|Ambition is rigid and instead of
flowing along with life, it tries to constantly impose its will upon life.

|However awareness of ambition
unconditionally cracks it until it is  dissolved completely.

The law of attration 2

The Actual Law of Attraction.
The real law of attraction is as follows...
"Its what you resist that persists &
whatever you look at that dissappears."







| Take any emotion from jealousy, to fear, to stress, to negativity,none of these can survive your AWARENESS.
| When you look at any of these, emotions as they are....i.e without labelling , without judgement, they dissolve and leave your energy field.
| The reason these emotions survive within us is that we are resisting them
constantly(either consciously or unconsciously).


Different ways in which emotions are resisted.
| Avoiding emotions by not facing them 
| Trying to direct attention on positive thoughts.
|Justifying emotions.
|Indulging in emotions (thinking,whining etc).
| Trying to think positive while one's inner state is sulking with negativity.
| Saying that I should not be feeling this way, after all... I have read so many books on the law of attraction and positive thinking.
| Escaping emotions/stress through alcohol,religious rituals,drugs,books,articles on spirituality etc.








Respecting your current state.


No matter.......
| how many positive thinking books one reads,


| how much one has knowledge about the law of attraction.. etc
| how many positive thoughts and intentions one creates daily,
| Life is going to show no signs of a radical improvement.
| Unless and until one learns to accept and respect one's own current state, everthing else is a poor substitute.
| Life is demanding from you complete acceptance and complete facing of your current state.
"Every activity from trying to become more positive,
 from trying to improve your current state,
isn't it all an escape from the content of the present moment"
                                                 
....................J Krishnamurthi.


In your own experience...
| Haven't you experienced that.......
| When you were struggling against a problem it showed no signs of improving, the more you struggled to fix it, the worst the problem became.
| Finally when you surrendered in front of it, it
dissapeared completely.
| The more one takes measures to see to it that things
should go perfect... the more things get messed up? Its as if Life plays a mischief.
| When you completely understood a problem by facing it
without any resistance i.e just looked at it helplessly as it is without even condeming it, it vanished forever.
"Unless the bitter and the sweet are tasted as if one,
 they are not going to dissolve into one
to give way to the highest to come forth"


                 .........Burth harding(The awareness foundation)




The keyword is Vulnerability.


|Vulnerabity works wonders in one's life.
|If one makes himself vulnerable to all his emotions... the so-called positive as well as the so-called negative, it is at that point that a radical change happens in one's life.
|The overall frequency of a person changes to the core of his being.
|Many trapped(resisted) emotions come up to the surface and leave forever.
|One now as if has shifted gears to a higher order of reality and attracts corresponding circumstances.
|Life as if demands an equal and an impartial behaviour to all our emotions without labelling or judjing them.
                         " Judge not or lest
                            you shall be judged"

                     ........................The HolyBible

When you feel..........

|Sulked..........sulk completely and freely and be aware of it as it is.

|Miserable....feel it completely and freely and look at it as it is.

|Jealous...... ''                         "       "                      "        ".

|Fearful....."                      "                   "                  " 

|Victimized........"                              "                             "   .

|Feel these emotions completely, experience them completely without any resistance, any need to change them, to get rid of them etc.

|Feel sulked as if you are the most sulked person on earth.

|Feel jealous "         "                        "        "and so on............

|What happens next?

| Let others know your experiences here

Partiality done to emotions due to the law of attraction

• Many books upon the law of attraction teach us to avoid negative thoughts and at the same time teach us to not to resist anything since what you resist persists.

• However isn't avoidance a form of resistance?

Is life going to allow us to cake-walk just because we know the law of attraction and we know to manifest circumstances?







What are emotions?




|An emotion is nothing but e-motion....i.e energy in motion and energy loves to be in motion.
|It is not emotions that are the real problem, but the labelling and the resistance of it that keeps it stuck within us and projects corresponding circumstances in life.  This resistance is the source of all problems.
|By being aware of our stuck emotions as well as our current emotions....one is totally reversing the process and allowing emotions to pass through.