THE LAW OF ATTRACTION TRAP

* Is LOA A Scam?

* Does the Law of  Attraction stop working after some time?

* The Nature of Desire.

Is The Law Of Attraction a Scam?

|LOA is a universal law which is
constantly in action. There is no denying it.

|Well one of the major
things that we learn in the LOA is that thought and feelings produce corresponding circumstances. But then that is all that the LOA can do. However many
of us are still not sure as to whether what is that we want. 

|Many of the things
that we think we want is truly not what we want from the bottom of  our hearts.

|When a person
 first learns the law of attraction and sees that it works, one may think that almost  everything is possible from this. However this does not happen. Because the
law of attraction  manifests through feelings and not just thoughts, there is a limit to which one can manifest with the law of attraction with thoughts
alone.

|Life is intelligent. If the
Law of Attraction worked powerfully always, there is chance that one would get caught in his web of desires and expectation.

|A life lead in such a way
seems meaningless even though using LOA things may seem to manifest.

I DIDN'T UNDERSTAND

|A lot of people who wanted to manifest a pefect
relationship honestly confessed that they couldn't do so because they felt that they were not deserving enough for it.

|Some even said that before the law of
attraction, i was craving and struggling behind a particular object/person of desire after being exposed to the loa suddenly getting insights wondering whether it was
truly what they wanted from their life.

|Many people got whatever they wanted from their
lives but complained of having a strange dissatisfaction inspite of getting what they wanted using the wonderful law. They said that there was a strange void within them which they initially felt would vanish after attaining the object of desire and so tried to fill it with the object of their desire, however even
after the object of desire was achieved , the void remained where it was.

|Infact in some cases it led to greater
frustuation because people now as if had nothing to look forth to  struggle  for in life.

|For the first time as if
they realized that they were all this time running behind things they actually never wanted.

|So this inturn limits the frquencies
emitted by them until they discover what is that truly resonates with their heart.

|ENOCH TAN, AUTHOR OF MIND-SPACE-REALITY has written a
very beautiful similar article here

CONFLICTING
INTENSIONS, THE LAW OF ATTRACTION TRAP

HOW DO I KNOW WHAT I WANT IN LIFE?

|BY spending time with your wants and
feeling them completely.

|Most of our wants were not with what we were
born with but rather something we were conditioned by the society that we should have or may be a string of circumstances led you to want something and when you never
got it and saw others possessing it, it became an abject of arrogance for you.

|Lets say you loved somebody and that person
initially loved you with all your heart. You trusted that person and then suddenly that person says he/she is no longer interested and that he/she is love with someone whom you loathe. Now this may
become an object of arrogance for you. This arrogance has nothing to do with love.

|The best way to understand this is to
imagine  as if that person has come-back to you right now........... after all your efforts have finally borne fruit. He/She is
once again mad for you. But do you still feel that same way for that person. Can you trust and love and live contented with that person. It may be that you no longer love that person. That person
may just be a fodder for your hurt ego.

I AM STILL NOT CLEAR HOW DO I KNOW WHAT  IS THAT I WANT FROM LIFE.

|As mentioned earlier, one of the best ways is to
feel as if that object is right now present with you and ask whether going behind this want really made sense in any way.

|A second effective method is to
track the root of the want. Where exactly at what point in time in your life did you start wanting it? What were the series of circumstances that led
you to want something?

|When you carefully track-back the
BIRTH OF YOUR WANTS, you may realize that this want was actually just an illusion created by different circumastances i.e the mind just created
this web of thoughts without even asking the heart whether I truly wanted it from all my heart.

AND HOW IS THIS GONNA HELP ME?

|When there is a realization from within
(and not because you came across a site named WHISPERS FROM SILENCE) that these things are not what you truly want in life......that is the beginning of the end of that
want.

You may get the object of that want, however that object even when it arrives, you are gonna be totally detached from it.

|A certain amount of momentum will be
possessed by those wants....so they may not get dissolved instantly. However in the course of time.......as you keep paying attention to them they dissolve.

CAN YOU SPEAK A BIT MORE ON DISSOLVING WANTS?

"Whatever is given unconditional attention to dissolves under its own strength,

and  Whatever is  resisted persists."

|The major reason why our wants have
survived within us for years put together is that we never paid unconditional attention to them. We either resisted them, or justified them or indulged in them or struggled at getting them or never
looked at them (ignorance and indulgance are also  forms of  resistance)

 |Wants are
nothing but trapped energy decaying within you. Energy always likes to be in motion. You would be surprised how fast WANTS get released when attention is given to
them.......as if they always wanted to be free. Your subconscious mind may give you different images at this time....like a child running after school freely or a person coming out of jail or a
fairy getting out of the trap of a monster and so on............

THE NATURE OF WANTS.

|Wants are nothing but trapped emotions
(energy that wants to be in a state of motion). This trapped energy is usually a constant in a given person at a given instant of time. The object of desire/want does not satisfy or reduce or
eliminate desire.

| Even after the object is
attained, now the object of desire changes to something else . However desire in itself is a constant until its dissolution takes place. It is a false notion that Desire will parch/eliminate itself
after the object of desire is attained.

|All that desire requires to be free is
your attention.

DESIRES ARE LIKE AN ICEBERG

|Lets consider an ice-berg floating in a
sea of water. The size of the ice-berg is going to remain constant no matter how many things one keeps over it in a life-time.  It is only an illusion that if one keeps a
sufficient weight upon the ice-berg, it will dissolve in water. The only way to dissolve it is.....

TO BRING IT IN FRONT OF SUNLIGHT.........ONES UNCONDITIONAL ATTENTION...hmmm?

|YES,...... got it right.

|Just as the ice-berg, desires donot
vanquish after the object of desire is attained. It only seems that way. Desire is a state-of-being of one. After one object is acquired, it takes the
form of another object and then another and so on. Unless and until attempts are made to dissolve desires through unconditional attention, desires are there to
stay.

IF ONE  DOES NOT  HAVE DESIRES , WON'T ONE BECOME LAZY?    WILL ONE STILL WORK AND HAVE THAT WILL TO WORK?        WON'T ONE'S  LIFE GET STUCK UP
IN A RUT?

|Its exactly the opposite actually.
Because desires are an unintelligent and stuck up form of energy. Energy when in that stuck up form is not lively and is stagnant and as if dead.
Desires only seems to delusion one and make him do things he truly does not desire from heart.

|However when desire is paid attention
to , it frees itself and totally merges with attention i.e (energy in the formless state).

|The same
old stagnant energy once in the form of desires has now turned into a lively, passionate but still and balance kind of energy. Energy has as if returned
home after a long duration. It is now formless and intelligent in itself. It has merged with the universal intelligence i.e your attention.

|Actions now come out of 
unconditional love. They are highly energetic, totally apt for the situation and things get done with ease and grace.

|The feeling one gets through this is
amazing and since the circumstances that come about in life are just a reflection of those feelings, all the right circumstances and feelings line up one after the other.

Dissolving desires and attaining clarity.

|Desires when dissolved lead to a newly
found clarity in one life contrary to the popular belief. Life is then lead with an intutive feeling of what is right and what wrong. Action now come out of a place of unconditional love.

|Actions taken now
are no longer a means to an end. The means and the end have as if merged together.

|Ambition on the other hand is just a
rigid conditioning which many a times distorts clarity in life. An ambitious person is not a person who necessarily follows his heart and who has clarity in life.

|Ambition is rigid and instead of
flowing along with life, it tries to constantly impose its will upon life.

|However awareness of ambition
unconditionally cracks it until it is  dissolved completely.